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发表于 2014-6-16 03:54:00 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
本帖最后由 望远镜 于 2014-6-22 15:48 编辑



困惑
热度 6已有 40 次阅读2014-6-13 17:08 |个人分类:医学人文



我是一个从医近五十年的老医生,又是一个患多种疾病近六十年的资深病人,我看过也看好过许多病人,也不知多少次的看过医生。是病人给了我看病的医术,给了我衣食住行。是医生给我减轻了病痛,给了我再次的生命!因此,我感恩病人,也感谢救死扶伤的医生!我经历过缺医少药,物资匮乏,工资低下的艰难岁月,也有幸来到今天的社会进步,医药条件改善,物资丰富,职工工资明显增加,老百姓的生活水平都明显提高的太平盛世。经历过医生关爱病人,病人尊崇,信任,依赖医生的年代,也看到并亲历了如今的医患关系紧张,患者或其家属疑医,试医,背医,骗医,仇医,告医,伤医,弒医事件在全国频发而屡屡不止的恶劣氛围。因此,使我不得不承认我是老革命遇到了新问题。做为一个老医生,我始终把个人的医德修养放在重要位置,尽我所能的把病人的利益放在优先地位,认真做好自己应作的工作,争取用较少的钱,用较少的医疗资源和设备为患者诊治疾病。干该干的事,拿该拿的钱,吃自家的饭,就这样在门诊工作中,时不时还会与患儿家属产生矛盾甚至冲突,使我感觉困惑。做为全国唯一位于县级市的三甲医院,接诊的绝大部分是来自基层的病人,常常因为挂号,或目前的一卡通充值问题,有的家属就会恶语伤人;有的因不愿做一个血常规检验,当面撕碎您检查单;有的病属自认为是肩关节病,医生说可能是肘关节,又拒绝检查,还要医生处置,造成不愉快;有的病属领了基层医生指令来做某种检查,医生认为不需要,也能产生冲突;个别病属在基层或别的医院诊断某种疾病,经认真讯问属于正常,家属不信,不厌其烦的反复询问,以至于影响后来病人的就诊,临走仍带着怨言或疑惑出门;有的病人因病重或复杂劝其住院治疗而不情愿而不满;有的病人钱未到位医生无法治疗就闹得不可开交,更不要说出了事故或差错了。上周四我门诊,一位门诊退休返聘的护士长,处于对我的信任领着一位农村患儿家属找到我,家属已带七个月龄的孩子在新乡市内一家医院看过医生,怀疑患儿俩条腿不一样,已经花费一千多元的检查费,包裹脑CT,据家人称还建议住院做康复治疗。我看过病儿,患儿家人述说的情况不存在,至少是不突出,以健康体检对待,属其回家观察,家属要求拍片检查,我说没必要,下午,家属又拿着从乡医院拍的X光片来给我看。我看他对我如此的不信任,只好把他介绍到小儿骨科。在医院里,司空见惯的是病人或者家属动辄就指责医生态度不好,以投诉相威胁......在全国各级各类医院里因纠纷大闹医院的已成家常便饭。前一阵北京,上海,杭州的几位资深权威的专家教授在健康报联名发文,把目前的医生定位为弱势群体,当时我还存异议。经过我本人在临床见到的许多个实例,使我不得不赞同几位同道的观点!看来家属或病人要找医生的“错”,可以有随心所欲的“理由”,医生就真的变成地位低微的“童养媳妇”了!医生到底该如何做才好?
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热度 6已有 40 次阅读2014-6-13 17:08 |个人分类:医学人文
Heat 6 has 40 reading 2014-6-13 17:08 | personal classification: Medical Humanities
I am a doctor near fifty year old doctor, is a suffering from various diseases of senior patients in recent sixty years, I have seen too many patients is good, do not know how many times and see the doctor. The patient gave me a doctor of medicine, gave me the basic necessities of life. Is the doctor reduces pain to me, gives me a second life! Therefore, I am grateful thanks to heal the wounded and rescue the dying patient, doctor! I have the experience of lack, shortage of materials, the hard times of low wages, have the honor to today's social progress, improvement in the medical conditions, abundant supplies, wages increased, people's living standards have markedly improved the a time of national peace and order. Experienced doctors caring for patients, patient respect, trust, rely on the doctor's, also see and experience the doctor-patient relationship nervous now, patients or their families suspected medical, shopping, and lie back, medicine, Chou medicine to medicine, medical, injury, murder and frequent events in the country and often more than bad atmosphere. Therefore, I have to admit that I'm a veteran revolutionary meeting new problems. As an old doctor, I always put the medical moral person is placed in an important position, as much as I can put the interests of patients in priority, conscientiously do a good job in their work, for less money, use of medical resources and equipment less for the diagnosis and treatment of disease. Dry the dry matter, take the money, eat their meals, so in outpatient service, sometimes with family members have contradictions and conflicts, which made me feel confused. As the only hospital in the county-level city, were mostly from the grassroots patients, often because of registration, or the current card recharge problem, some families will abusable; some were reluctant to do a blood test, to tear you check; some disease is considered shoulder joint disease, the doctor said may be the elbow, and refused to check, but also the doctors to dispose of, cause unpleasant; some disease is brought grassroots doctors instructions to do a check, the doctor that does not need, also can produce conflict; diagnosed a disease in the grass-roots hospital or other individual disease, after careful examination is normal, family members do not letter, not to mind taking the trouble. Repeated inquiries, that of the later patients consultation, he still took out complaints or doubt; some patients because of disease or complex advised hospitalization and reluctant and dissatisfaction; some patients money did not reach the designated position doctor cannot treat as much bukekaijiao, not to say the accident or mistake. Last Thursday my clinic, an outpatient retirement nurse, for I trust led a rural children families find my family, with seven months of age, children see a doctor in Xinxiang city hospital, the suspected patients both legs are not the same, has spent one thousand multivariate inspection fees, wrapped in brain CT, according to the family said that residents do rehabilitation therapy. I have seen children, children family tell situation does not exist, at least not outstanding, to treat in the home health physical examination, observation, the family requested film examination, I said it wasn't necessary, afternoon, the family also took X ray from the township hospital took to me. I can't trust him to me that, had introduced him to a pediatric department of orthopedics. In the hospital, It is quite common for the patient or family members often accused of doctor's attitude is not good, the threat to complaints... In all kinds and levels of hospitals because of disputes over the hospital is a homely food. A little while ago in Beijing, Shanghai, several senior authoritative expert professor in Hangzhou Health jointly issued, the doctor present for vulnerable groups, I dissent. After I see many examples in the clinic, so I have to agree with a few comrades view! It seems the family or patient to find the doctor "wrong", can have arbitrary "reason", the doctor will really become humble "child bride"! The doctor how to do?
















发表于 2014-6-16 07:50:47 | 显示全部楼层
       做什么事,什么工作,都是有难度的。“豈能尽如人意,但求无愧于心”就心安理得了。我是较相信医生和科学家的人,继续努力工作吧,祝身体身心健康!

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谢谢中山明网友的关注点评!  发表于 2014-6-19 02:35
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发表于 2014-6-16 08:34:23 | 显示全部楼层
大千世界,无奇不有,各行各业都有难处,只不过医患矛盾更突出罢了。若能换位思考,很多矛盾都会烟消云散。

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不用客气。  发表于 2014-6-19 06:20
谢谢诸位网友们的点评!  发表于 2014-6-19 02:38
谢谢!关注与支持!  发表于 2014-6-16 18:40
赞同您的观点!  发表于 2014-6-16 13:35
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发表于 2014-6-16 12:38:45 | 显示全部楼层
各行各业,只要有人群的地方,都需要理解、谅解、支持、帮助!

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谢谢诸位的关注!  发表于 2014-6-16 19:09
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 楼主| 发表于 2014-6-16 19:17:44 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 望远镜 于 2014-6-18 03:11 编辑

谢谢诸位朋友的关注!

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 楼主| 发表于 2014-6-18 03:17:17 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
谢1谢谢您的关注和点评!
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 楼主| 发表于 2014-6-18 03:19:36 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
谢谢您的关注与点评i!
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 楼主| 发表于 2014-6-22 20:27:27 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 望远镜 于 2014-6-22 20:33 编辑

谢谢诸位网友们的关注评点!有些问题是人的品德和人格决定的。

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